Sweetness is a good trait. This I know. It brings people together, makes you seem more approachable. It build bridges and is excellent for personal and career networking.
I, however, am not sweet. I am cold to most people and I hardly have friends.
Sometimes I’m okay with this, sometimes… not so much. I am mostly happy alone but I know I need other people.
Empathy seems a lot of work for me. It’s hard to reach out to people and be genuinely interested in their lives.
I am a social cripple.